Our friend, Erik Raymond of Emmaus Bible Church in Bellevue, addressed this question by personal example and good counsel. His practice is very close to what Deb and I did with our kids, where as they grew older, they not only participated in a family time but were to do private devotions that included journaling. What was asked of them was modeled by mom and dad. Here is Erik's article:
This is probably one of the most common questions I hear from parents wanting to establish Christian disciplines in their kids.
Every Christian parent deals with this at some point. They struggle with what they should mandate vs just encourage their kids to do. And with this, how much? At what point will we defeat our purpose and discourage them?
OUR PRACTICE
This is what we do in our home. I am not saying it is for everyone, but we are supportive of it as a practice by conviction and experience. Our children range from 20 months to almost 16. There is quite a variety.
I’ll hit this from two angles, family and personal devotions.
Family Devotions: As a family we work through books of the Bible. We typically do this after dinner in the evening. I read a section of Scripture and talk about it as we go. I weave in questions and application. I require everyone to participate and help the younger ones to do so.
We are also going through The Heidelberg Catechism to help provide a firm theological understanding.
This is probably one of the most common questions I hear from parents wanting to establish Christian disciplines in their kids.
Every Christian parent deals with this at some point. They struggle with what they should mandate vs just encourage their kids to do. And with this, how much? At what point will we defeat our purpose and discourage them?
OUR PRACTICE
This is what we do in our home. I am not saying it is for everyone, but we are supportive of it as a practice by conviction and experience. Our children range from 20 months to almost 16. There is quite a variety.
I’ll hit this from two angles, family and personal devotions.
Family Devotions: As a family we work through books of the Bible. We typically do this after dinner in the evening. I read a section of Scripture and talk about it as we go. I weave in questions and application. I require everyone to participate and help the younger ones to do so.
We are also going through The Heidelberg Catechism to help provide a firm theological understanding.